INTRODUCTION TO THREESOMES: the double penetration edition

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Introduction to Threesomes: The Double Penetration Edition

You’ve seen it in porn. You probably know people who have done it. If not, trust me, more people than you may think have actually had a threesome. What I am referring to regarding double penetration (DP) is a threesome consisting of two men and a woman (MFM- male, female, male). The identifying factor of DP sex is that each man possesses one hole (one in the a$$, one in the vagina) at the same time. Whether you are curious about the topic on an educational level or if you secretly fantasize about DP, keep reading.

So let’s start with the research because although I personally hate performing research, it’s vital to provide a better understanding of the prevalence of threesomes in general.

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In a 2016 study at a Canadian university, Thompson and Byers surveyed 274 hetero students, ages 18-24, mostly women, about their thoughts on threesomes. On a scale of 1-7 (one being not interested and 7 being interested), men’s interest in FFM sex (female, female, male) averaged 5.1 (shocking), while their interest in MFM was about 2.7. Women’s interest in either threesome was about 2.5, so pretty low, but interesting considering that woman rated MFM and FFM almost equally.

Regarding actual experiences, 18% of the men had participated in a FFM threesome, while 8% had participated in a MFM threesome. Seven percent of women, on the other hand, had been a part of a FFM and 5% of women in MFM so both pretty low. I find these results interesting considering the predominance of threesomes seen in pornography. I also thought that men’s interest in FFM would have been much higher than the results suggest. As a psychology student, however, I can’t simply look at the data as a fact. You must take into consideration the fact that threesomes are still sort of “taboo” and that you must be a tad more sexually adventurous to pursue a threesome. Another aspect to consider is people’s reluctance to report their interest and experiences in threesomes.

The How to Guide

I have always been interested in threesomes, MFM threesomes to be exact, from an educational perspective and sexual curiosity. There’s something about seeing two men sharing a woman that is just absolutely erotic. However, it just looks confusing. Like how the f*ck does it work? The logistics of it are just a tad mind-blowing. So I took the question to Google. I found some great advice, logistical explanations and such.

What the Pros Suggest…
  • Baby step ladies, baby steps, don’t just go at it without being prepared. Start with simply plugging your a$$ with toys. If you are a beginner, I recommend getting a beginner plug set like this starter kit.  For a how-to guide on anal check out my previous post, Intro to Anal. Once you feel pretty comfortable with a plug, then introduce a dildo in your vagina to get the feel of it…the fullness. Once you are comfortable with two toys, one in each hole, then you can get a little more adventurous. Now it’s time to have sex with a plug you’re a$$!!! I’m excited about this as you can see by my triple exclamation point because it’s pretty amazing. The fullness you experience is indescribable. The butt plug makes your vagina feel tighter as well making it more pleasurable for your male partner. The orgasm you experience is like 3x better. TIP: I like to incorporate a Mini Wand too so my clit gets attention too. Triple pleasures my friend, triple pleasures.

Only then should you attempt to add another member to the duo.

  • The un-sexy prep. Before attempting DP, pros suggest getting your body ready (your butthole). The day before, eat light, fiber-rich foods. You don’t want loose poo the next day. Also, drink lots of water the day before. The morning of, eat light as well. Do an enema. It’s not fun and it’s pretty gross, but it makes you feel light…lol…and ensures a clean butt. The last thing you want is an accident. Talk about a mood kill. But hey it happens, we are only humans, and poo does come out of your butt even if you don’t like to admit it. Last, but not least, bathe/shower. This should be common sense, my friends.
  • Lube. Do not forget anal lube that is condom compatible.  I personally like Relax Anal Lubricant by Clean Stream, it’s desensitizing thus preventing potential discomfort. For a full review on it click here.
  • Protection. Please use condoms. You don’t want to get preggo and have to figure out who’s baby it is like an episode of Jerry Springer. You also do not want to deal with an STI, yuck.
  • Be educationally prepared, lucky for you, I’m providing you all the education you will need. I have done the research for you. There are certain positions that are applicable to a MFM threesome. Actually, I think there’s only three that allow for DP. Obviously, the female is sandwiched in the middle in all of them.
    • Male is laying on his back on the bottom, the woman is in reverse cowgirl with his d*ck in her a$$, and another male on the top missionary in the vagina. This one is interesting but seems a little bit more difficult especially if you are not a reverse cowgirl pro. However, in this position, it’s easier to incorporate your BFF, your vibrator duh, if the top male allows some space between your bodies. I would suggest a smaller on either a mini bullet vibrator or this Mini Rechargeable Vibrator.
    • Male is laying on his back on the bottom, women on top with his d*ck in her vagina and another male on top doggy style like position with d*ck in the a$$. This one seems a little easier to accomplish. I personally think this one is naughtier too just because I think doggy style, in general, is sexier. However, there may be little to no room for a vibrator, therefore, if you need clit vibration, I would suggest a Vibrating Cock Ring of course.
      • Side by side. So basically, you’re all laying on your side. You are facing the one guy in front of you with his D in the V, you are obviously in the middle and the other guy is in the back of you f*cking you in the ass. This position seems much more comfortable, but to be honest I’m not really into side by side. I’m a dirty girl and this position is a little too vanilla for me. Plus, side-by-side penetration isn’t as deep. If your partners have giant c*cks, then maybe this would be your best option…it’s safer for your holes (sorry I have to lol here).
Reality…

Your first time with two guys is probably not going to turn out porn perfect.

Pornstars do DP for a living. If this is your first time, there will be logistical errors. There are three people, all with different agendas, so it’s important to be on the same page. D*cks may slip out. When one goes in, it just may push the other one out hahaha.

Make it fun and light. Laugh it out. High five each other and communicate with each other. Most importantly…practice makes perfect.

 

References

Thompson, E. A., & Byers, E. S. (2016). Heterosexual young adults’ interest, attitudes, and experiences related to mixed-gender, multi-person sexArchives of Sexual Behavior. E-pub ahead of print. doi:10.1007/s10508-016-0699-1

 


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